End-of-Life Issues
A Practical Planning Guide
Introduction
Many people are uncomfortable
thinking about or talking with
others about the
end of their lives. However, learning about end-of-life
arrangements and
talking in advance with your loved ones and your health care provider
can help
lessen fears. Such preparation can also let those close to
you know how you
would like matters to be handled, making it more likely that your
wishes will be
carried out.
This brochure looks at various
choices available to you,
whether you are
preparing in advance or if you are a patient, family member, or friend
already
dealing with a terminal illness or with a sudden death.
You have the right to decide what
kind of care you want or do
not want, to
choose where you want to spend the last days of your life, and to make
clear what
you would like from people close to you. You have the right
to choose how you
want matters to be handled after your death. We plan for
other life events,
like birth, graduations, weddings, and birthdays, but often we leave
preparation
for the end of our lives until the very end.
At some point each of us will come
to the end of our
life. Thinking and
talking about it can make the experience less difficult for ourselves
and for those
we leave behind. Being open can help us break through
isolation, give us
comfort and a chance to live our lives fully even as we face our
mortality.
Topics in this Brochure Include
Facing Death
Medical Concerns
Legal and Practical Concerns
Grief and Loss
Final Arrangements
Facing Death
When we face the end of our own
life, or that of a loved one,
we bring to the
experience all of our values, traditions, emotions, and knowledge, all
of the parts
that make up who we are. In some cultures death is accepted
as a part of
life, while in others there is a fear to talk openly about it.
In facing your own terminal
illness, or the death of a loved
one, you may want
to seek the advice and support of family members, friends, religious or
spiritual
advisors, or get counseling or support from others who have had a
similar
experience. Also, hospice programs, described elsewhere in
this brochure,
specialize in caring for terminally ill patients and their loved ones.
When a Patient has a Terminal
Illness
When a patient is told he or she
has a terminal illness it can
be frightening
and overwhelming. The patient may feel there is nothing more
to do, but there
are still choices to be made.
It is important to have a
partnership with your health care
provider, as he or
she can provide needed care and can educate you on what to
expect. Even
though your illness may not be curable, there is care that can provide
comfort.
Tell your health care provider
what is important to you and
how you want to be
treated through each stage of your illness. Make a list of
questions and
concerns and have a friend or family member go to appointments with
you.
Having another person can help in asking questions and in understanding
what is
being said. If there is something you do not understand, ask
that it be
explained more clearly.
Along with medical care you may
want to seek emotional,
physical, and spiritual
care. Other professionals that can be of help are listed
under the section
“Home Care Programs.”
The assistance of friends and
family members can be important
not only for you,
but also for your loved ones. People often want to help, but
are uncertain
how to ask or what to offer. You, or someone close to you,
can make a list of
needs. These needs might include spending time with you or
going to
appointments, providing meals, assisting with legal and estate matters,
gathering
medical information, running errands, organizing bills and other
paperwork, doing
laundry or yard work, and arranging for home care services.
You may choose to face your
illness with the help of only a
few close loved ones
or to involve a wider community of support. It is important
to take part in
deciding when and how you want help from others.
You might choose life-prolonging
treatment or at some point
you may decide to
limit such treatment. You might choose to have medical care
in a hospital or,
if possible, you may want to remain in your home. Programs
like hospice, home
health agencies, or nurse registries can provide some medical and
support services
in the home.
Special Concerns
When Death is Sudden and
Unexpected:
Whatever the cause, sudden death
can leave survivors in shock,
intensifying
feelings of grief and loss. There is no time to say good-bye
or to show the
person how you feel. In addition, if the person who died did
not prepare in
advance, funeral services will have to be arranged quickly, maybe
without knowing
what the person would have wanted. You may have to straighten
out legal and
financial matters requiring a lot of work and time.
When a Child Dies:
Parents, grandparents, brothers or
sisters, and other
relatives and friends can
experience a wide range of intense emotions when a child
dies. You may blame
yourself or repeatedly replay the event in your mind in hopes of
changing the
outcome. It may help to talk with others who have lost a
child.
The Compassionate Friends is a
national support organization
that offers
friendship and understanding to grieving family members who have lost a
child. They have a national website and local support groups
throughout the
United States. For more information view their website at CompassionateFriends.org
or call their toll-free number (877) 969-0010.
When Death is the Result of Suicide:
The grief that survivors of
suicide feel can be
overwhelming. You might
wonder if you could have done something to prevent the
suicide. For more
information you may want to contact the following
organizations: Survivors of
Suicide (SurvivorsOfSuicide.com),
or the National Hopeline Network (hopeline.com,
800-784-2433).
For support resources in your local community
try calling the
phone number 211. This is a referral service available in
many Florida
communities and they can tell you about possible support groups and
other services
in your area.
When Death is the Result of
Criminal Violence:
Dealing with the results of
criminal violence can be an
emotional and confusing
experience. The person who brought on the violence may never
be found or, if
the person is arrested, you might choose to participate in what is
usually a long
legal process. Many law enforcement departments and state
attorney offices
have a victim advocacy program that assists survivors of a murder
victim.
The Division of Victim Services at
the Florida Attorney
General’s office
has a fund for financial assistance to innocent victims of
crime. If your
loved one was a murder victim, his or her immediate family may be
eligible for
financial help for some lost income, mental health services, and
funeral
expenses. To learn more call the toll-free number (800) 226-6667,
or in the Tallahassee area call (850) 414-3300, or view the
website MyFloridaLegal.com.
Medical Concerns
The medical needs and concerns of
a terminally ill patient
will likely change as
the patient’s illness progresses. This section
looks at medical
concerns, including questions for your health care provider, pain
management, and
home care programs.
Questions for Your Health Care
Provider
It is important to have open and
comfortable communication
with your health care
provider. If you are direct about what you need
you will more likely receive the kind of care you want. Also, if you do
not understand
something that is said to you, ask that it be more clearly explained.
Questions to ask
might include:
- What is your experience in
working with terminally ill
patients?
- Are you comfortable talking
openly with me about death and
dying?
- What will happen to me as this
illness progresses?
- What are my care
options?
- What are the benefits and
difficulties of my care
options?
- What medications will I be
taking and how will they affect
me?
- If I experience pain how will
it be managed?
- Will you keep me informed of
changes in my care plan?
- If I want aggressive, limited,
or experimental treatment
will you respect my
wishes?
- If I want only comfort care,
such as provided through
hospice, will you
continue to serve as my health care provider?
- What is the range of time I
might be expected to live?
- What can I expect during the
last few weeks or months of my
life?
You have the right to decide how
much treatment you
want. Do you want the
medical staff to do everything medically possible to extend your
life? Do you
want care given only for comfort and to reduce pain? If you
say you want a
certain level of treatment, and even if you put those choices into
writing, you
still have the right to change your mind at any point.
Pain Management
If the illness is going to cause pain, it is very important that pain be talked about and managed as best as possible.
According to various studies, patients often are undertreated for pain. You can suffer unnecessarily when you or those
providing your health care are uncertain about appropriate medication dosage or if they do not understand your level of pain.
Pain management needs to be responsive to the needs of each patient. It needs to include good communication between you and
the medical staff involved in your care. Talk with your physician or nurse if you feel you are not receiving the best level
of pain management. You can also request a second opinion on treatment options. Also, hospice programs have knowledgeable
experience with pain management.
Home Care Programs
Hospice provides a coordinated
program of professional and
volunteer services
for patients with a terminal illness. Staff members are
specially trained to
assist you and your loved ones in dealing with end-of-life
issues. They offer
palliative care, which provides comfort and relieves pain and other
symptoms when
there is no cure available. Hospice allows you to die with
dignity,
respecting your values and encouraging you and your loved ones to be
involved in
the decision making process all along the way. The goal is to
provide a good
quality of life while preparing for the end of life.
To be eligible for hospice
services a patient must have a
prognosis of living
six months or less and no longer want curative care. This means
the patient is not looking for a cure, but wants palliative care
(described in the previous paragraph). If a patient lives beyond six months
after admission they
can continue to receive services as long as the doctor continues to
document the
patient’s eligibility. Hospice services are often
not fully used
because most people turn to hospice only during the last two to six
weeks of the
patient’s life, though they could have the services for much
longer.
Hospice services can be provided at the following locations:
- Your personal home
- Nursing home
- Assisted living facility
- Group home
- Foster care home
- Freestanding hospice facility
- Hospital
Services can include:
- Nursing
- Physician care
- Social work
- Pastoral services
- Nutritional counseling
- Grief counseling for patients and their families
- Physical, occupational, speech, and massage therapy
- Music and art therapy
- Home health aide and homemaker services
- Home medical supplies and equipment
- Respite services for caregivers
Grief counseling and support
continue to be available to loved
ones after the
patient dies.
Employees in home health agencies
and nurse registries can
also provide some of
the services listed above. However, their employees
may not be
specially trained to assist with end-of-life issues, like
hospice. Home
health agencies and nurse registries can provide services from
a nurse, certified nursing assistant, home health aide, and
homemaker. In
addition, a home health agency can provide physical, speech,
occupational and
respiratory therapy; home medical equipment; nutritional counseling;
and social
work services.
You can find a list of Florida hospice providers, home health agencies,
and nurse registries on Facility Locator
at FloridaHealthFinder.gov.
After you have an agency or a list of agencies click on a
name to find the address, phone number, driving directions, the administrator
and owner, emergency actions (where applicable), and a link to inspection reports.
The profile page also includes a “Compare Quality and/or Pricing” link for Medicare certified
home health agencies that connects to Medicare’s Home Health Compare website. The
Compare Quality and Pricing link
for hospice providers opens the Family Evaluation of Hospice Care survey. The results of this survey are based on
the experience of families whose loved one received hospice care. It asks family members about their view on the
care provided to the patient, as well as their own hospice experience and asks if the patient’s care needs were met,
including personal needs, respectful treatment, if the family was kept informed, and if evening and weekend needs were met.
Services through home care
programs can be paid by private
funds or by some
insurance policies. In addition:
- If you are eligible, Medicare
or Medicaid can pay for
hospice
services.
- If you and the home health
agency are eligible, Medicare or
Medicaid may pay
for home health services.
- If you and the nurse registry
are eligible, one of the
Medicaid Waiver
Programs may pay for services arranged by a nurse registry.
For more information view the
Medicare website Medicare.gov
or call the toll-free number
(800) 633-4227 (TTY 877-486-2048). To
apply for Medicaid check the phonebook
for the local listing of the Florida Department of Children and
Families or go to
dcf.state.fl.us.
To read more about the Medicaid program view the
Medicaid page on
FloridaHealthFinder.gov.
For more information on home care programs see the brochure
Home Health Care in Florida
on FloridaHealthFinder.gov.
Legal and Practical Concerns
We all have the chance to make some plans in advance of a
terminal illness or an unexpected death, and to discuss these matters with the significant
persons in our lives. This section looks at health care advance directives,
Do Not
Resuscitate Orders, durable power of attorney, wills, and tips for
getting
organized.
Health Care Advance Directives
A health care advance directive is
a paper that expresses a
person’s
wishes about his or her health care, or a written form directing an
anatomical
donation after death. Advance directives, as the term
indicates, are written
in advance. Some people write them when they are diagnosed
with a
life-threatening illness. Others put their wishes into
writing while they are
healthy, often as part of their estate planning, like writing a will or
buying life
insurance.
Types of health care
advance directives include:
- Living will – a
written form that describes if
you want certain
life-prolonging medical care provided, withheld, or withdrawn if you
are unable
to make your own decisions and you have a terminal illness or are in a
persistent
vegetative state.
- Health care surrogate
designation – a written
document naming another
person as your representative to make medical decisions for you if you
are unable
to make them yourself. You can include instructions about any
treatment you
want or do not want, similar to a living will. You can also
choose an
alternate surrogate. If you choose a health care surrogate
and alternate,
be sure to ask them if they agree to take this responsibility, discuss
how you
would like matters handled, and give them a copy of the
document.
- Anatomical Gifts – a
written document that
indicates your wish to
donate, at death, all or part of your body. This can be organ
and tissue
donation to persons in need, or donation of your body for training of
physicians,
dentists, physician assistants, and other health workers. For
more
information see the section “Anatomical Donation.”
It is important that any health
care advance directive be
witnessed by at least
two individuals. Laws on advance directives are in Chapter
765 of the Florida
Statutes (Available at your local library or at leg.state.fl.us).
The Chapter
includes samples of a living will, designation of a health care
surrogate, and
donor of anatomical gifts. You can hire a lawyer to write
these documents or
you can refer to the Florida Statutes for examples.
You can also use our publication
Health Care Advance Directives on
FloridaHealthFinder.gov.
Other organizations also provide
advance directives.
One is “Five
Wishes” that includes a living will and a health care
surrogate. Five
Wishes is distributed by Aging with Dignity (AgingWithDignity.org,
888-594-7437).
Other Forms:
- A Do Not Resuscitate Order (DNRO) is a form to identify
people who do not wish to be revived if they are not breathing or if their heart
stops. It usually is for patients who are terminally ill or who are in a
persistent vegetative state. The DNRO is a specific form from the
Florida Department of Health (DOH). Your attorney, health care provider, or an
ambulance service may have copies available for your use. The DNRO form
is requested and signed by you, or your legal representative, and is signed by your
doctor. More information is available at
DOH.state.fl.us/demo/trauma/DNRO.html
- Durable power of
attorney is a written document naming
another person to act
in your behalf. It is similar to a health care surrogate, but
the person
can be designated to perform a variety of activities (financial, legal,
medical,
etc.). If you choose someone as your durable power of
attorney be sure to
ask the person if he or she will agree to take this responsibility,
discuss how
you would like matters handled, and give the person a copy of the
document.
- A will tells
others how you want your financial estate and
possessions to be
distributed after you die. It can also name someone to be the
personal
representative of your estate or to care for your dependent children,
should that
be necessary. A lawyer can write a will for you or you can
write one
yourself. There are books and Internet resources that can
guide you in
writing your will.
Tips
to Help You Get Organized
- Decide
whether you want a will, health care advance
directive, durable power
of attorney, and/or a Do Not Resuscitate Order (DNRO), as described in
the
previous section. From time to time review your needs and the
documents you
have. You can change or cancel these documents at anytime.
- Set
up a file or files where you keep important
paperwork. Some people
keep original papers in a bank safety deposit box. If you do,
you may want
to keep copies at your house or information concerning the location of
your
safety deposit box. Papers might include your will; durable
power of
attorney; birth certificate; social security card; insurance policies;
a health
care advance directive; financial documents like bank accounts, loans,
stocks and
bonds; property deeds; pre-need contract (described later in the
brochure);
cemetery deed; auto titles; veteran information; and others.
- If
you have a health care advance directive, a DNRO, or a
durable power of
attorney discuss this with your health care provider and the
significant person
(or persons) in your life. When you make your loved ones
aware that you
have an advance directive, and you discuss with them how you would like
things
handled, it will better assure that your wishes will be carried out the
way you
want. Make them aware of the location of this paperwork and
give a copy to
your health care provider and to the person who you ask to be your
health care
surrogate or durable power of attorney.
Grief and Loss
You
and your loved ones will probably go through a wide range
of feelings.
There is no right or wrong way to grieve, and each person will have his
or her own
way and time for grieving.
Grief
and loss can begin before a patient dies and, for
survivors, can continue
long afterwards. Holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, certain
activities or
locations, even smell and taste can bring on a sudden sense of loss and
grief. In our fast paced society others might expect we
should move quickly
through grief and put it behind us. But grieving can be a
slow passage that
moves through many changes.
You might choose to grieve alone or might want the support of loved ones.
You might become active in your community or with hobbies, to help you through
the grieving process. You may turn to your religious community or draw on your
spirituality to help you through. Also, most hospice programs offer grief and
loss services to anyone in the community, even if the patient did not receive
hospice services. Other resources include books, support groups, or counseling.
Final Arrangements
Often
people do not think about final arrangements until after
a person has
died. Then decisions are required to be made quickly during
an emotional and
stressful time. It is possible to plan ahead by discussing
your wishes with
the significant person (or persons) in your life and writing down how
you would
like things to be handled.
You
can pay in advance for a burial site, cremation, and/or
funeral services
through a pre-need contract with a funeral home, crematory, or
cemetery. Or
you might decide in advance to donate your body to science.
The information
in this section can help you think about what you would like.
Funeral Services
People
usually think of funeral services as the viewing at the
funeral home and
a graveside service. However, the services can include many
choices.
Funeral
costs include the basic services of the funeral
director and
staff. This covers funeral planning, getting necessary
permits and the death
certificate, sheltering the remains until the burial or cremation is
completed, and
coordinating with the cemetery, crematory, or other third
parties.
Additional
services include transporting the remains,
embalming, use of the
funeral home for viewing or a memorial service, graveside service, use
of a
limousine, a casket, grave liner (a container that either covers the
top and sides
of the casket or completely encloses the casket), and cremation or
burial.
These
additional services can vary in price among funeral
homes and not all of
the services are required. For example state law does not
require embalming,
but if there is going to be a viewing, the funeral home will probably
require
it. A grave liner is also not required, but a cemetery can
include it as part
of their contract. A viewing, memorial service, graveside
service, or use of
a limousine is not required.
There
also can be cash advance charges for goods and services
the funeral home
buys for you from outside vendors, such as flowers, obituary notices,
pallbearers,
clergy, and musicians. These services also can vary in price
and are not
required.
Since
there are choices about the services you can buy be sure
the funeral
provider clearly explains all of them. Make it clear to the
provider which
services you want or do not want.
Many
funeral providers offer a variety of packages that
include certain goods
and services. These packages might include services you do
not want.
You are not required to accept a package deal and instead can buy only
the
individual goods and services you choose.
You
also can buy products and services from different
businesses. For
example, you can buy a casket from one source and then arrange the
funeral service
through another. A funeral home cannot charge a handling fee
if you buy the
casket from another source. You can compare services and
prices, and choose
the business with which you feel most confident and comfortable.
Arranging
funeral services can be emotional and
difficult. You might be
influenced to pay more than you want or can afford. The
Funeral Rule,
enforced by the Federal Trade Commission, requires funeral directors to
give you in
person or over the phone a detailed price list of their services and
all products
they offer.
If
a funeral home does not show you lower priced items, such
as a simple pine
casket, you may want to ask to be shown these. If they do not
have what you
want, you can contact another provider.
Burial
Burial
involves several choices. A person can be
buried in a casket, which
can range from an unfinished wood box to an elaborate metal
casket. The
remains from a cremation can also be buried. Burial can be in
the earth, in a
mausoleum (a building above ground), or in a columbarium (a structure
for cremated
remains, that can stand alone or be part of a mausoleum).
Costs can
include:
- Cemetery
plot, or space in a mausoleum or columbarium
- Grave
liner (if required by the cemetery)
- Graveside
services (if desired)
- Opening
and closing the grave, crypt, or niche
- Grave
marker
- Everlasting
care of the site
A
direct burial is when the deceased is buried shortly after
death. Direct
burial is less costly because there is no viewing at a funeral home,
there is no
need for an elaborate casket, and embalming is not necessary.
You can still
hold a memorial service (without a viewing) at your home or in a
religious
building, funeral home, cemetery, or other location.
Questions
in choosing a cemetery site might include:
- Are
there restrictions on the type of monument or memorials
permitted?
- Will
the cemetery require a grave liner?
- Can
flowers and remembrances be placed at the grave,
mausoleum, or
columbarium?
- Do
the fees include everlasting care of the site or is that
a separate
expense?
Cremation
Cremation
is done through a heat process where the body is
reduced to ashes and
bone fragments, which are referred to as cremated remains or
cremains. A
casket is not required for a cremation, but an alternative container
will be used
to hold the deceased during the cremation. This can be an
unfinished wood
box, a cardboard box, or a container that covers the entire body and is
rigid
enough for handling. After cremation the cremains can be
placed in a simple
box provided by the establishment, or a decorative urn can be bought or
provided by
you.
Cremation
can be done through a funeral home or a direct
disposal
establishment. When done through a funeral home a viewing at
the funeral home
can be a part of the service, if so desired, prior to
cremation. If you
choose to do this it may be possible to rent a casket for the viewing
and then have
the body cremated in an alternative container. A viewing
cannot be held if
you use a direct disposal establishment.
Direct disposal establishments are licensed to transport and store the
deceased until the cremation is carried out, complete the death certificate,
cremate or arrange for cremation, obtain the necessary permits for direct
disposal, and arrange for newspaper obituaries. These establishments cannot
carry out other responsibilities of a licensed funeral home. To find out if
there is a direct disposal establishment in your area check the phone book
or view the website of the Division of Funeral, Cemetery and Consumer Services
at the Florida Department of Financial Services
(MyFloridaCFO.com/FuneralCemetery).
Direct
cremation is less costly because there is no viewing at
a funeral home,
there is no need for an elaborate casket, and embalming is not
necessary. You
can still hold a memorial service (without a viewing) at your home or
in a
religious building, funeral home, cemetery, or other location.
After
cremation the cremains can be buried in a gravesite, be
placed inside a
columbarium or mausoleum, be taken home, or be scattered in a favorite
spot.
Burial
at Sea
Active military personnel and veterans can have their bodies or their cremains buried at sea by the Navy. For more information view the U.S. Navy’s website
navy.mil.
Private
citizens can arrange for burial at sea through a
funeral home, a
crematory, or they can arrange it themselves. If you want to
arrange it
yourself, please review the Federal Environmental Protection
Agency’s website
(epa.gov/region02/water/oceans/burials.htm)
for conditions that need to be met for burial at sea.
Anatomical
Donation
You
can make an important gift to seriously ill people or to
the education of
health care professionals by agreeing in advance to make an anatomical
donation
when you die. Anatomical donations can include organ and
tissue donation to
persons in need or donation of your body for medical training and
research.
You
can indicate your choice to become an organ and tissue
donor by having it
put on your driver’s license or state identification card (at
your nearest
driver’s license office). You can also register online at DonateLifeFlorida.com. More information on organ
and tissue donation
is available on the federal website OrganDonor.gov.
Another
choice is to donate your body for medical training and
research.
The Anatomical Board of the State of Florida coordinates donations to
medical
schools in the State of Florida. For more information view
the website of the
Anatomical Board of the State of Florida at med.ufl.edu/anatbd
or call the
toll-free number (800) 628-2594.
To
donate your body for medical training and research you, or
your survivors,
must arrange with a local funeral home and pay for an embalming and
transportation
of the body to the Anatomical Board located in Gainesville,
Florida.
After
being used for medical education or research, the body
will usually be
cremated. The cremains will be returned to loved ones, if
they requested that
at the time of donation, or the Anatomical Board will spread the
cremains over the
Gulf of Mexico.
If you decide you want to make an anatomical donation be sure to let your loved
ones know as it will better assure that your wishes will be carried out the way
that you want. If you change your mind and want to cancel it, contact your local
driver’s license office about organ donation (if your driver’s license or state
identification card states you are an organ donor) and the Anatomical Board about
body donation.
Pre-Need Contract
Some
people plan their own final arrangements and sometimes
pay for them in
advance. A contract can be made with a funeral home,
cemetery, and/or a
direct disposal establishment. Such arrangements can be made
when one is
healthy and not pressed with the emotions of a life-threatening
illness. Such
pre-arrangements can help the surviving loved ones during their time of
grief and
loss.
If
you have a pre-need contract for funeral services it is
important to tell the
significant person (or persons) in your life who the contract is with,
what it
covers, and where the contract paperwork is filed. In the
event of your
death, the paperwork will be easy to find and arrangements can be
carried out
according to your plan.
Questions
in considering a pre-need contract might include:
- What
services are covered by the contract?
- What
happens to the money I have prepaid?
- If
I cancel the contract can I get a full refund?
- What
if I relocate and no longer want to use the funeral
provider or
cemetery?
- What
if I die while away from home?
The business offering a pre-need contract is required to secure it in a trust
fund or with an insurance policy. If the company does not honor the contract or
tries to collect additional money to carry out the services, your survivors can
report this to the Division of Funeral, Cemetery and Consumer Services at the
Florida Department of Financial Services. Find contact information on their website
MyFloridaCFO.com/FuneralCemetery.
If
you do not want to enter into a pre-need contract, but
would like to
financially prepare for your funeral services, you can save money
towards this
cost.
Financial Considerations
Funeral
expenses can range anywhere from $1,000 to $10,000 or
more, depending on
the choices you make. A cremation with no viewing at a
funeral home and no
burial will be less expensive than a funeral with the full range of
services.
A direct burial also can be less expensive. Before making
arrangements
consider what is important to you and your loved ones, how much you can
afford, and
what you wish to spend.
If you have earned enough Social Security credits, there is a special lump-sum benefit payment
of $255 that can be paid at the time of your death to your husband/wife or minor children if they
meet certain requirements. For more information contact the Social Security Administration toll-free
at (800) 772-1213 or TTY (800) 325-0778 or
view the website SSA.gov.
Active
military personnel, veterans, and their husbands/wives
and dependent
children are entitled to a free burial, grave liner, grave marker, and
everlasting
care in a national cemetery. There is no charge for opening
and closing the
grave, or for setting the marker in a national cemetery. In
addition, active
military personnel and veterans are eligible for burial at sea, or for
a grave
marker in any cemetery in the world. These benefits are also
available to
some civilians who provided military-related service and to some U.S.
Public Health
Service personnel. For more information contact the U.S.
Department of
Veterans Affairs National Cemetery Administration’s toll-free number (800) 827-1000
or view the website
CEM.va.gov.
Additional Concerns
- What
if a person dies while away from home, in
another city, state, or
country?
Contact a funeral provider in your town or
city and they can
make arrangements for the transfer of the deceased to the location of
your
choice. You can also arrange for cremation in the city where
the person
died and have the cremains sent to you or to another location.
- Who
should be called when a person dies outside of
a medical
setting?
If the person was receiving services from
a hospice program
contact the hospice. If the person did not have hospice
services call for
local law enforcement and an ambulance, which in most areas would be
the phone
number 911.
- What
happens to a person’s financial
assets, possessions, and unpaid
debts after death?
If there is a will, the
custodian of the will must
deposit it with the Clerk of the Court within 10 days of learning of
the
person’s death. You may want to consult with an
attorney to find out
whether a probate proceeding is required.
When
probate is required, the personal representative (either
named in the will
or appointed by the court) is required to notify the beneficiaries of
the will,
publish a notice to creditors, and other tasks. The
representative can also
hire an attorney to handle settlement of the estate.
For
more information on this process contact an attorney or
your County Clerk of
the Court.
- What
else will need to be taken care of after
death? The
following will not necessarily apply to everyone. If any of
the following
apply to your situation:
- File
any life insurance claims
- Contact
the deceased’s place of employment to ask
about any possible
benefits
- Contact
Social Security, Veterans Affairs, and other
organizations that may
provide benefits or that need to be informed of the death
- Notify
banks about accounts, companies about loans, and
change property
titles (if these tasks were not already done)
- Obtain
copies of the death certificate to be used in making
these types of
notifications and claims
- Close out accounts, as needed, like utilities, cable services, services that deduct payment directly from a bank account, etc.
A will or a probate hearing may affect some of these
tasks. You may decide to carry out these kinds of
tasks yourself or you may hire an attorney to do them.
Additional Consumer Brochures Include:
A Patient’s Guide to a Hospital Stay
Assisted Living in Florida
Florida Medicaid - A Reference Guide
Health and Human Services Programs
Health Care Advance Directives
Home Health Care in Florida
Long-Term Care
Nursing Home Care in Florida
Patient Safety
Understanding Prescription Drug Costs
Note: This brochure is not designed to offer medical or legal advice. Please talk with your doctor for medical advice and an attorney for legal advice.
Information in this brochure is current as of August 2011.
This brochure may be copied for public use. Please credit the Agency for Health Care Administration for its creation.
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